DON’T TELL YOUR WIFE YOU LOVE HER

DON’T TELL YOUR WIFE YOU LOVE HER

It’s Unprofessional in my own opinion telling your wife you love her when you don’t know What Love actually means at first place,

Some misinterprets likeness/Lust to love

1- Don’t tell your wife you love her if you can’t hide her flaws and weekness from your friends and family,
*Pray about it and direct her , she’s not a finished product either she’s still travelling to the place of betterment

2- Don’t tell her you love if you can’t give her peace even when she made a very expensive mistake
*Correction can’t be violent in nature

3- Don’t tell her you love her if you don’t give her audience to pour out her opinion in some matrimonial matters
*The last time I checked a wife is a helper ,her opinion may be helpful

4- Don’t tell her you love her if her tears doesn’t melt your heart to some measures even if you’re the pharaoh of this generation
*Her cry should be considered,look into that matter again,she can’t be crying for crying sake

5- Don’t tell her you love her if you still sleep with another lady outside your wedlock
*Love must restrain you from adultery no matter what

6- Don’t Tell her you love her if you are shy of taking her out for shopping or programme
*Me personally suggest you should hand over the shopping money to her, let her pay

7- Don’t tell her you love her if you can’t be her father and a counselor at all time
*Remember She left her father and the other bro that normally counsels her because she choosed to be with you

8- Don’t tell her you love her if you don’t remember her in prayers
*Do the work of an intercessor , intercede on her behalf

9- Don’t tell her you love her if you can’t make her feel safe when you’re at home
*Some men are lions devouring their wives

10- Don’t tell her you love her if you can’t humble yourself and apologize whenever you wronged
*Pls young man don’t let pride kill your marriage,you can even kneel and beg her ,you won’t die trying to save that beautiful marriage

11- Don’t tell her you love her when you don’t know how understand how she feels during her monthly period

• Some men doesn’t know what is even called Period. I must be blunt here.
  That’s the time most of them feel much pain that they can’t even arrest some house chores,they should be pampered during those period
  Make her know you understands her pain

12- Don’t tell her you love her if you can’t answer her at least 15 times out of 20 times she needs you in bed
*Know that she has to be satisfied because her sexual life has been activated and it’s your responsibility to see her satisfied

Pls don’t make her say you’re running away from your home work,it was you that activated that sexual life(That should be if she controlled her sexual urge during single hood)

Sex is fundamental for married couples

I case my rest ,I must write as am led and Inspired

My Ink mustn’t run dry regarding what we have to know about marriage and married life